Thabiti M. Anyabwile’s Finding Faithful Elders and Deacons

 Thabiti M. Anyabwile’s Finding Faithful Elders and Deacons is a classic for aspiring pastors, those already in pastoral ministry, and deacons alike. The author’s straightforward approach, avoiding unnecessary fluff, is a key reason I admire this book. It is divided into three parts. The first part focuses on selecting deacons and their unique roles in the church. The second part addresses finding reliable pastors, discussing their qualifications concisely yet meaningfully. The third and final part outlines what good pastors do, detailing scriptural mandates for faithful and fruitful shepherding in a clear and concise manner.

In my hometown churches, deacons were chosen through a straightforward process, often based on criteria such as wealth, regular attendance, or employment status. Growing up in this context, I overlooked the true significance of the deacon’s role. However, the author, on page 21, illuminates the loftiness of this office through Scripture (Acts 6). He highlights three key aspects: (a) the exemplary character required of deacons (“full of the Spirit and of wisdom,” v. 3), (b) their role in facilitating the ministry of the Word and prayer, and (c) their unifying and strengthening effect on the entire church. Among these, the third point stands out most to me. Deacons play a crucial role in fostering unity and strength within the local church. This is especially evident in my hometown churches, where some congregations faced potential division, only for deacons to intervene and restore unity. This insight stresses that the selection of deacons should be approached with the same seriousness as choosing pastors.

On the same page as my previous reflections, the author, drawing from Scripture, outlines the duties of church deacons. These insights are invaluable as I prepare to plant a church in the future. Deacons are tasked with caring for the vulnerable by identifying and providing practical support for neglected groups, such as widows. They must manage and distribute benevolence resources fairly and transparently. Additionally, deacons promote cultural harmony by resolving tensions and fostering inclusivity within the church. Finally, they preserve church unity by addressing complaints to prevent division and supporting leadership to maintain a unified church witness.

On pages 57 and 58, the author clarifies the meaning of being “blameless” or above reproach. He directly states that it does not require sinless perfection but rather a demeanor and behavior that, over time, earn respect and admiration from others. An elder must live a life worthy of God’s calling (Eph. 4:1; 5:1–2; Phil. 1:27; Col. 1:10–12). The phrase “over time” stands out, highlighting that as an aspiring pastor, I must continually grow, striving to be better today than yesterday, consistently earning respect through godly conduct. This insight is profoundly encouraging.

Further reflecting on the importance of being above reproach, I am convinced by the author’s two key reasons. First, an elder is viewed as an example to the congregation in all areas of life (1 Tim. 4:12; 1 Pet. 5:1–3) and receives the benefit of the doubt against unproven allegations (1 Tim. 5:19). Poor character in an elder risks setting a harmful example and abusing this trust. Second, an elder must be esteemed for godly character, not worldly attributes like wealth or popularity. While I was familiar with the term “above reproach,” I struggled to fully explain it. The author’s clear explanation not only helps me understand it but also inspires me to live it out.

In Chapter 16, I appreciate how the author titles the chapter “Leader at Home,” distinct from the previous chapters, which are named after specific qualification terms. More importantly, the author’s explanation reassures me and clearly captures the significance of being a strong leader at home for an aspiring pastor. He states it plainly: “It is not something he can learn on the job, but a minimum qualification for even considering the application. If he cannot manage his smaller household, he cannot manage God’s larger household, the church. God calls an elder to nothing less than tending to His family and household.”

On page 129, under “Elders Command,” the author eloquently corrects a common misunderstanding about pastoral authority. Many assume pastors, as leaders with power, can freely exercise authority, often leading to misuse. This section clarifies the error of so-called spiritual leaders who abuse their authority. The author writes, “But the ability to command is not rooted in the pastor himself. The pastor’s talents and abilities are not the grounds for his authority. Neither does the pastor’s moral superiority provide the grounds for his authority. The Word of God provides the only sufficient grounds for pastoral authority.” This serves as a vital reminder for me to exercise authority with discernment—as a father, husband, and, God willing, future pastor when I start a church.

Under the section “Elders Watch Their Doctrine,” the author unexpectedly suggests that elders occasionally read a “bad book,” which initially surprised me. His reasoning, however, is compelling and persuasive. He explains that an elder might read such a book because it captivates his congregation or is stirring discussion in the wider church community. By engaging with it, the elder gains insight into the issues at stake, enabling him to shepherd his people more effectively and strengthen his apologetic ministry. I would add to the author’s advice: “Master the Bible first before exploring bad books.” While such reading may not heavily sway an elder, subtle influences could still take hold. Satan is cunning and relentless, seeking any opportunity to deceive God’s people.

I highly recommend Thabiti M. Anyabwile’s Finding Faithful Elders and Deacons to my former church pastor and deacons, especially the deacons. I would love to sit with them and read it together, helping them fully grasp its insights. The roles of deacons in our church are often misunderstood, leading them to take on tasks beyond their biblical responsibilities, sometimes willingly and sometimes out of ignorance. This book’s clear and straightforward guidance will open their eyes to the true scope and significance of their calling.